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MAR-14-05
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Women more than men seem to have comments, but I would like to add my two cents.
Divorced, abandoned, and hurt more than words can say. My Daughter, 14, and I have been severely wounded by my X and left lasting scars that appear to have healed.
Yes, God wants you healed and Satan definitely wants you in bondage, but we must be willing.
Many prefer to hang on and nurse the hurt, anger, and self pity. I did for a long time because I loved so deeply. I thought marriage was till death do us part. I cried myself to sleep just about every day for a long time, but I believe it was the will of God to get on with my life finally after grieving for so long.
My daughter and I have healed, recuperated, and become very close to each other. She still loves her mother, just as she should, but is not close to her now like she once was.
I pray for the day she completely forgives her mother!
Men usually cannot admit these things so easily, but I can because I am past the need to be an insensitive macho man. The love of Jesus surpasses all love!
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FEB-28-05
9:21:26
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Looking back on my marriage and divorce I can see how I didn't get to know her well enough before marriage, and that daily decisions on both parts led to distancing and eventual disinterest and divorce. Singles must be willing to say "no" as well as "yes."
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JAN-14-05
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I can't get past what he did to me, no matter what I do. It comes back to me, even tho it's been 5 years since his affair began, and 4 years since our divorce. He had such a high regard for marriage vows, and I had such unshakable trust in him, I'd never have dreamed it could happen. It seems the anger and humiliation will always be there, and that I will never be able to totally trust anyone again, like I did him. It took my self esteem way down below zero. It's not something one just "gets over". God is the only one who will be able to heal my heart.
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JAN-11-05
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My main concern isn't my healing, but that of my ex-husband's. He has gone from relationship to relationship, without any counseling or healing. This was the reason for our divorce. I am just now trying to enter the "dating scene". I took time to grieve, to be angry, and to heal. I know that there has to be a healing process, otherwise, the same scenarios will be repeated in future relationships. I pray that some day receives his own healing, and stop trying to find it in the arms of other women.
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This coming spring my son will graduate from high school. It will be met with great joy for my whole family. I have friends that shared with me sad experiences that happened on their childrens graduation day because there was no resolve to put away the anger and enjoy the day. A few years ago my decision was to openly discuss my sons future with his dad and keep him involved in all school events. It seemed that's when healing began. It was a common ground that we agreed. It is hard to make a determination not to converse in a negative way about my sons parent, however the more I practiced it the easier it got. Raising teenagers is hard enough, adding x spouse bashing can contribute to your teenagers inner emotional term oil. Soon I relalized my son was coming to me to discuss openly his feeling about his dad and freely asking me questions about the divorce. These were subjects I couldnt dragg out of him even when I tried. I look forward to graduation in May. It will not be met with concern about where we are going to sit during the ceremonies in order to keep from even looking at each other. I look forward to seeing the joy on my sons face when he see's that we are celebrating his graduation togather as a family. It's the best gift that you can give your child.
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